Thursday, August 25, 2016I'm good at comedy!At business, not so good!Since my return to comedy, minus management, I've been in pursuit of stage time. 5 years later I can say, with absolute confidence, that my texts, calls, emails and obsessive social media networking resulted in nationwide indifference from bookers.I’m an actress/comedian. This business demands I bribe, harass and hoodwink friends into being audience where I “showcase” myself for little or no pay. What could be better?PAYING TO MEET "CASTING AGENTS" WHO WILL NEVER HIRE MESo many ways to be humiliated, so little time.I'm good at comedy!Donald Trumpis good at business.4 bankruptcies?No problem!Politi Facts (Sep. 21,15) quotes The Donald, "I used the law four times and made a tremendous thing. I'm in business. I did a very good job.*Personally, I don't know how to use bankruptcy laws or anything else to make "a tremendous thing" like GOP nominee Donald Trump.This The Daily Caller (Aug 23, 16) quote is a great example of Trump's business acumen.The Trump campaign’s rent at Trump Tower in New York City had been the same throughout the Republican primary. Since starting his campaign last summer, and ending in March, Trump paid$35,458a month for his campaign headquarters. Trump raised his rent in May to $72,800, and in June, the rent increased to $110,684. The month of the Republican National Convention when Trump officially became the nominee, he charged himself$169,758in rent for the same space, according to a report by S.V. Date of the Huffington Post published Tuesday.(3/1/16) The Daily Beast reported:The name that seems to come up most often on the list of businesses the Trump campaign pays is -Trump. Between June16, when he announced his candidacy through the end of 2015, his campaign spent $2.2 million patronizing Trump businesses. The majority-$2 million was spent on Tag Air Inc., where Trump is CEO.
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Tuesday, August 23, 2016I have a miserable cold and fever besides other issues. That doesn't mean there aren't good things going on too. But right now, my energy is low. I have stories to share, as usual, but for now a blast from the past.
Thursday, August 18, 2016
She was a petite mature white woman more attractive in person than the selfies she shared*** conveyed.
I envied the flattering cut of Patricia's thick head of gray hair. Yes, I envy women (of a certain age) who confidently sport thick heads of white, platinum, or graying hair with aplomb. I also envy women who use words like aplomb with aplomb, but I digress.
This Photo Is Not Patricia
The Only Photo After I Searched For Images Of Black Women With Gray Hair
Patricia was researching roles for a screen scene study class (say that 3 times fast!) and was disappointed those she'd read included semi-nudity, which she felt was demeaning to women.
We got on the topic of standing-in, which I've done many times including for Whoopi Goldberg on an episode of Absolutely Fabulous shot in NY. I mentioned Patricia could easily stand in for an actress I've admired for decades...
Helen MirrenI not only envy this hair-do I need this photo filter for my life!
We bonded over our affection for Helen Mirren until I mentioned how frequently she appeared semi- nude in many of her (critically acclaimed!) films. Patricia's face paled as she sighed.
PP: Now, I've loss all respect for her.
Me: Why have you lost respect for Helen Mirren?
PP: I don't think a woman should demean herself by doing that on film.
Me: Doing what?
PP: Taking her clothes off on-camera.
Me: Do you have less respect for Jane Fonda, Sophia Loren, and Susan Sarandon?
PP: I don't respect any woman who would take her clothes off on-camera. What do you think?
Me: I think you have every right to your opinion.
And in my head I continued... "If I were offered the quantity and quality of diverse and challenging roles offered to Helen Mirren, I'd drop clothes in a NY minute. And I'm not going to mention my youthful lead in an indie feature in which I played a stripper!
That being said, I recently turned down the opportunity to audition for a nude part just because I considered my naked body of the moment not "camera ready". Now THAT is demeaning! I may have just lost all respect for myself.
*Stand-in is a (2nd team) actor who stands in position for the principal or featured actor while the director sets blocking and technicians arrange lighting and assorted equipment needed for a particular scene; after which the (1st team) star, feature or day player actor steps into place.
**Background artists or ambiance is the name I prefer to what some disparagingly call "extras". These are the (non-speaking) actors who walk around or sit near 1st team actors to support the look or ambiance of a scene.
***Sharing pictures of our different "looks" is a traditional pastime on set. We compare the "characters" we offer casting directors who hold our incomes in their decisions. For example ...
Join me in cabaret mode with Ann McCormack, Woody Reagan & FriendsDon't Tell Mama Sun @ 5PMCause That's The Thing To Do These Days
Thursday, August 11, 2016
Yes, I've got a few thoughts on ourPresidential Campaign
I made this tape to enter the MoveOn.Org contest
Love Trumps Hate
Who Knows What Next Week Will Bring?
Tuesday, July 26, 2016My long-time friend Judy and I went to the Nightly Show with Larry Wilmore.I love being with her. We know each other over more than three decades. Before the actual taping, one of the people who work with audience offered to take pictures on our cell phones of us on the set. I have a flip phone, but I got it ready for picture taking. I thought I’d get mine, and Judy would get hers on her more sophisticated phone. As I stood in position, Judy gave the woman her phone and joined me on the set. I had to laugh because we can easily look like a “couple.”I leaned over and told Judy, “No one is ever going to believe I’m straight.”“What else is new?” Judy responded. I had to laugh.That is so true. No matter what the reality is, people see what they see, and to many, we are a couple. We are actually a couple of friends who have been on and off in terms of making time for each other over the years, but when we are together, we have typically shared our deep concerns, happinesses, and unhappinesses. Our time together has not been consistent, but it is meaningful and most often very fun and love-filled.The show was good. Wilmore is naturally funny. The tickets are free. If anyone in the NYC area wants to go, you, too, can request tickets here: https://www.showclix.com/event/TheNightlyShowwithLarryWilmoreToward the end of the show, a hip hop group performed an anti-Trump song (cleaned up somewhat). At one point, my body jerked back. Judy turned to me to see what was the matter.
"I thought his dick hit the floor ‘cuz he let go.”
Tuesday, July 19, 2016I was asked by the producer if I could attend a commentary on a film I was in since it is getting attention by a distribution company. It was for a Friday night, and I actually was available. I wrote back, “Yes, yes, yes,” and I asked for the details. Nothing. Then as the evening was approaching, I contacted him and said I never got the details – time, address, etc. He said, “I thought you couldn’t come.”Now, I know when women say “NO” it is sometimes interpreted by men as “Yes.” But here I said, “Yes, yes, yes,” and he thought I said no. Go figure. It made me wonder if maybe he didn’t want me there for the commentary. He sent me the details though never answered one of my questions. It was an important question. I went anyway.I definitely didn’t allow myself enough time to get from the Bronx to Bay Ridge, Brooklyn. So I was late.When I arrived, the producer said he couldn’t believe we were all there at the same time. It wasn’t the whole cast, just a few of us. He even asked me (and the others) what made me agree to come. I said that since I was in the film, I felt a part of it and involved since then. I came to the cast party too.It is in the horror genre with a twist of comedy, and definitely some originality. I don’t watch horror films. I could appreciate this one because I was in it, the producer and director treated us well, and everything they said they’d do, they did. I’m glad for them if they get some fame from this. They are pretty focused and passionate about it.I arrived a bit stressed from the trip, being late, etc., but I was in a generally good mood though somewhat tired.The others were males, and, within minutes, I felt like I was on a very male planet like the one I’m actually on, and it felt awful. I wasn’t expecting this since my experiences with them had been good, so I was off guard. They were talking about some other film where someone put a charger or something in a woman’s vagina and charged their phone. And I felt like I felt much of my early life, speechless and horrified at how we are hated. The thought never occurred to me to do such a thing to anyone including a rapist. I’d rather a rapist just be shot dead. I’m not a fan of torture.Then later it seemed to get a little more comfortable. The producer shared stories with us about different cast members. He had frustrating experiences with some. One woman apparently was supposed to get paid extra because she was supposed to have a make-out scene with one of the actors. But the day of the filming of that scene, the actor had a cold sore. She refused to do it which was understandable to all, but she insisted on the money for the make-out scene. That was the point of contention. I admire that she did insist on the money, but I know I wouldn’t have, unfortunately. She was counting on the money, it wasn’t her who had the cold sore, so good for her.Now here is what took the whole thing back in a shitty direction. Another actor said that she still could have kissed him, just not on the lips. Then he went on to say that the producer should’ve made it so every actress has to make-out, and then just tell them it landed on the cutting room floor.Just love that dehumanization. It’s so heartwarming when a human is spoken of as a thing. At that point, I guess my spirit was sinking and I was starting to wish I had stayed the fuck home. Almost a two-hour trip to feel invisible and speechless. If we don’t keep consciously addressing it, this shit just takes over again. Generation after generation is always in danger of having any progress reversed. Geeeez! (For those readers who are concerned about “upsetting the guys,” I’d say they come that way. How else can they speak of us as containers for their garbage?)At that point, I wasn’t feeling very commentative. I suddenly had so little to say. As an actress, it had actually been a really fun experience to do the film. And we were paid. But when it came to the commentary, I felt smothered by misogyny. It was a sense of the world being about them while everyone else is just kinda there to serve and adorn.
Tuesday, July 12, 2016
For a long time, I often wondered how gay people could be practicing Catholics or how women can be police officers or soldiers when their "own" are as dangerous to them as the perceived enemy. I have wondered what black police officers feel about their peers and their jobs. I'm not talking about black people who forgot where they came from or women who don't appreciate real women. I'm talking about those whose many positions in life are connected, integrated, and not compartmentalized.
I am a teacher. I come from the poor working class until my Grandpa passed away. Then we were on welfare. At 17, I was thrown out of my grandmother's apartment because I was dating a black man, didn't lie about it, nor did I feel wrong. Now I am the working struggling class. I went to college living on a top floor walk-up, eating creamed cheese sandwiches for many meals. I had hope. Then Reagan became president, and rents quadrupled or more.
My students are adults who also had challenging lives and didn't get to finish high school. We connect rather easily. We generally do well together. Other teachers have puzzled over what I "do in my room" that I generally have good attendance, students making academic progress, laughter in the classroom. I don't know how to get across to those teachers that it isn't what I do as much as how I am and what I don't do. Many teachers have much more interesting well planned lessons than I do, but what I do tends to go in because of the relationship. I don't work in the Bronx to convince myself I'm a progressive person while snickering at those who live here. I live here and work in my borough. A student once told me, "Mindy, you don't change because you are real." Moments like that take a permanent place in my heart.
As a teacher in the Bronx, I often have felt our students would be better off if the bigoted do-gooders stayed in their own communities because as skillful as they may be in their craft, they bring their bigotry with them while believing they don't. It does its damage. I have often felt my insides screaming, "Why are you in this field? Go sell real estate!"
This is someone I feel in sync with. Her worlds are integrated.
One black female police officer's response to what's going on ...
Tears rolled down my face as I watched. Yet it felt comforting that other sincere people exist, mean what they say, and live an authentic life.
On a positive note, I was uplifted by seeing what some younger women are doing with their intelligence, talent, and concern about others. Enjoy!